GO Kendall! I am so glad she took the initiative and pulled Zach into a kiss :wub:

I did get upset with our girl though for trying to excuse or trying in my mind not to take responsibility for her affair
I don't remember Zach accusing her of anything other then her trying to run Ryass's life and thinking no woman is good enough for him. Our girl really needs to work on her trust issue (trusting Zach) also needs to not blame Zach for her thing with that other person.

Zach needs to stop with being the rescuer of all damsels in distress also be more open with Kendall he loves her Adores but keeps things from her and that beings out Kendall's insecurities which leads to suspicion and then .... For a marriage to survive there has to be trust on both sides once they have that trust nothing really anyone can do or say to get them to mistrust each other.

I am looking forward for nice and long discussions with Zach and Kendall
seeing them being honest with each other and work through things like real couples and start reconnecting with each other. It will be slow yet worth every second of it :wub:

I just wanted to slap Zach for not being honest with Kendall. Him saying he couldn't get back with her and not opening up only pushes Kendall away. :shrug

Lynn :hug
Zach was honest in that he can't give her what she needs right. With out getting into the tit 4 tat stuff, she really hurt him when she turned to ryan..
She totally shut him out. I hate to say it but she basically turned on him. I know she was upset and pissed at what he had done, but she turned to ryan knowing ryan was going after him and everything he loved and she didn't try very hard to stop him.
So I understand Zach's hesitancy when it comes to giving his heart back to her.. like he said yesterday, what happens if she decides to go running back to ryan, and what did she do?? , she went running back to ryan.
I want the slow burn, I want him to be all uncomfortable around her. I want her to get in his space the way he used to do to her..i want her to wear him down, but I also want it because it's what they both want . I want them both to be ready and they're not..

IA this time around Kendall needs to be the agressive one
and persue him. Zach gave her his whole heart and had it broken
she not only had an affair she had it in Their home in their bed.

They both have made a lot of mistakes they need to communicate more
and find their way to each other. I can wait for that I want a lasting and strong marriage for them.

Yeah, I'm of the mind that Kendall needs to pursue Zach this time around. Zach was right to not just leap in at the first declaration of love from Kendall. Because in spite of that declaration, what was Kendall's first impulse when she didn't receive the results she wanted when she wanted it...she went to Ryan.

Again.

Zach isn't ready. And frankly Kendall's actions said that she wasn't really ready either.

Next week, perhaps they will both move a little closer towards one another.